Prospecting vs. Retargeting: Why Your Ads Need Two Very Different Messages

If you've ever looked at your Ads Manager and thought: "Why isn't this ad converting?"

There's a good chance the problem isn't the ad itself.

It's that you're asking one ad to do two completely different jobs.

One of the biggest mistakes I see business owners make is using the same messaging for people who have never heard of them and people who have been following along for months.

Those are two very different audiences. And they need two very different conversations.

That's where prospecting and retargeting come in.

Understanding the difference between these two campaign types can completely change how your ads perform.


What Is Prospecting in Paid Ads?


Prospecting ads are designed for cold audiences.

These are people who:

  • Have never visited your website
  • Have never watched your content
  • Have never joined your email list
  • May not even know your or your business exists

You're basically introducing yourself for the first time.

The goal isn't to make a sale immediately (although these ads can!). The goal is awareness, curiosity, and earning enough trust for someone to take the next step.

Think of prospecting ads like introducing yourself at a networking event.

You probably wouldn't walk up to a stranger and immediately ask them to buy from you. You'd start a conversation first.

The same applies to paid ads.


What Prospecting Ads Should Focus On


When you're speaking to cold audiences, your messaging should:

  • Stop the scroll
  • Create curiosity
  • Introduce your expertise
  • Explain why this matters
  • Give people a reason to learn more

A prospecting ad should answer questions like:

  • Who are you?
  • What problem do you solve?
  • Why should I care?

You're not closing the deal yet. You're earning the click.

Because that's what prospecting feels like. Nobody proposes on the first date.


What Is Retargeting?


Retargeting is a completely different conversation. These ads are shown to people who already know who you are.

Maybe they:

  • Visited your website
  • Watched your videos
  • Clicked a previous ad
  • Opened a lead form
  • Engaged with your Instagram content
  • Joined your email list

They're familiar with your brand. Now your job is helping them move from interest to action.


Why Retargeting Often Converts Better


Retargeting audiences are smaller. But they're usually much warmer. These people have already raised their hand and shown some level of interest. They don't need another introduction. They need reassurance, clarity and confidence.

That's why retargeting messaging tends to focus on:

  • Testimonials
  • Case studies
  • Objection handling
  • Social proof
  • Frequently asked questions
  • Stronger calls to action

Instead of saying: "Here's who I am."

You're saying: "Here's why now is the right time to take the next step."

Because that's exactly what's happening.


The Funnel: Introduction vs. Invitation


One of the simplest ways to think about this is:

Prospecting = Introduction

You're introducing your brand.

You're creating awareness.

You're helping someone understand who you are and why they should pay attention.

Retargeting = Invitation

You're inviting someone to take action.

You're helping them make a decision.

You're removing hesitation.

You're making the next step feel easy.

Most businesses skip this distinction and end up running invitation-style ads to people who haven't even met them yet. That's where things get messy. (eek!)


What Prospecting Ads Actually Look Like


Strong prospecting ads usually include:

1. Hook First

  • Your first job is stopping the scroll.
  • People are moving fast.
  • You need something that catches attention.

2. Credibility

  • Who are you?
  • Why should they listen?
  • Why are you different?

3. Education or Storytelling

  • Give them a reason to stay.
  • Teach something, tell a story or share a perspective.

4. Low-Pressure CTA, prospecting ads work well with CTAs like:

  • Learn More
  • Watch More
  • Get Details
  • See More
  • Contact Us
  • Sign Up

Notice how none of those require a huge commitment… that's intentional.


What Retargeting Ads Actually Look Like


Retargeting ads are typically more direct because the audience already knows who you are. Now it's time to help them decide. Strong retargeting ads often include:

Objection Handling → Addresses the hesitation directly.

For example:

  • "I don't have time."
  • "I'm not sure this will work for me."
  • "I need to think about it."
  • "The investment feels high."

Testimonials and Social Proof → Let your clients tell the story.

Sometimes your audience will believe your clients faster than they'll believe you.

Stronger Calls to Action → Retargeting ads often use CTAs like:

  • Book Now
  • Apply Now
  • Purchase
  • Get Started
  • Claim Your Spot

Why? Because this audience is closer to making a decision.


Why Using the Same Ad for Both Audiences Doesn't Work


Imagine walking into a room and introducing yourself like this: "Hi, nice to meet you. Here's my pricing page."

Weird, right? But that's essentially what happens when businesses run conversion-focused ads to cold audiences.

On the flip side, retargeting audiences don't need another introductory lesson.

They've already done the research and they've already been watching.

They need help deciding, not to be bombarded with more information.

Different audience.

Different stages of awareness.

Different conversation.


When Should You Launch Prospecting vs. Retargeting Ads?


Start With Prospecting

Day one, focus on building awareness. Prospecting campaigns can look like:

  • Traffic campaigns
  • Landing page view campaigns
  • Engagement campaigns
  • Video view campaigns

The goal is building your audience pool.

Add Retargeting Later

Once you've built enough traffic and engagement (typically around 30 days), you can begin layering in retargeting campaigns. This is where you'll usually run:

  • Lead generation campaigns
  • DM campaigns
  • Application campaigns
  • Sales campaigns
  • Conversion campaigns

Retargeting works best when there's actually an audience to retarget. Seems obvious, but you'd be surprised how often this gets skipped.


How I Typically Think About Budget


For newer accounts, I often start with a heavier investment toward prospecting.

Think roughly:

  • 80% Prospecting
  • 20% Retargeting

As the account matures and audience sizes grow, that balance may shift closer to:

  • 60% Prospecting
  • 40% Retargeting

This isn't a hard rule. Every business is different. Your audience size, sales cycle, and goals all matter.


Common Prospecting and Retargeting Mistakes


1. Not Feeding the Retargeting Pool

You can't retarget people who haven't interacted with your brand. If prospecting isn't working, retargeting eventually dries up too.

2. Expecting Cold Audiences to Convert Immediately

This is one of the biggest mistakes I see. People often need multiple touchpoints before they buy, and that's normal!

3. Using the Same Creative for Both Audiences

The message that works for a stranger is rarely the same message that works for someone already considering your offer.

4. Forgetting Exclusions

Nothing frustrates potential buyers faster than continuing to see ads for something they already purchased.

5. Turning Ads Off Too Soon

Ads need time, data needs time and optimization definitely needs time.Patience is part of the strategy!


Final Thoughts


Prospecting and retargeting aren't competing strategies, they work together.

Remember…

  • Prospecting brings new people into your world.
  • Retargeting helps those people take action.

When both pieces are working together, your ads stop feeling random and start functioning like a real marketing system.

Because the goal isn't just getting more clicks.

It's creating a path that turns strangers into clients.


Not Sure Which Part of Your Funnel Needs Attention?


Inside Ads That Grow®, we build both sides of the system: the prospecting campaigns that bring new people in and the retargeting campaigns that help convert them.

If you're ready to create a paid ads strategy that feels clear, intentional, and scalable, I'd love to help! Book a complimentary call with me here and let’s chat!

 

Lauren Goldman is the founder of Goldman Grows and a trusted paid ads expert for entrepreneurs who want to scale without shortcuts.

With over $200M in ad spend managed for global brands including Bondi Sands, Morphe Brushes, and Obagi, Lauren brings proven strategy to small business owners who want to learn the skill of paid ads, not outsource blindly.

Her approach combines expert oversight, clear systems, and personalized support so entrepreneurs can build high-converting ads with confidence, clarity, and consistency.

Ready to stop guessing with paid ads?

If you’re serious about scaling and want expert eyes on your strategy, messaging, and results, let’s talk.

Work with Lauren inside Ads That Grow™ to get expert support across your ad strategy, copy, creative, and performance.

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Lauren Goldman is the founder of Goldman Grows and a trusted paid ads expert for entrepreneurs who want to scale without shortcuts.

With over $200M in ad spend managed for global brands including Bondi Sands, Morphe Brushes, and Obagi, Lauren brings proven strategy to small business owners who want to learn the skill of paid ads, not outsource blindly.

Her approach combines expert oversight, clear systems, and personalized support so entrepreneurs can build high-converting ads with confidence, clarity, and consistency.

Ready to stop guessing with paid ads?

If you’re serious about scaling and want expert eyes on your strategy, messaging, and results, let’s talk.

Work with Lauren inside Ads That Grow® to get expert support across your ad strategy, copy, creative, and performance.

APPLY NOW TO WORK TOGETHER
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